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I got my courage all revved up... - Spirit
Seeking...
I got my courage all revved up...
Current Mood: uncomfortable uncomfortable
With no place to go.

What -do- you say to the ex with whom your beloved is still enamored of?

The worse part is, I don't think he cares. But what do I know. I couldn't even get me together enough to ask relevant questions. I felt unsatisfied, somehow.

I'm turning into a soap opera. Except I don't get to read the script.
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hisdaffodil From: hisdaffodil Date: May 16th, 2004 09:02 am (UTC) (Link)
*hugs*
I must reserve comment in this instance. Maybe later when I'm feeling brave and ornery at the same time.
It's a TLC soap opera? Life UNscripted.
wingedpixi From: wingedpixi Date: May 16th, 2004 03:36 pm (UTC) (Link)
your unsatisfied because you dont feel as if you accomplished what you wanted to... oh and btw... the apostrophy lady from you last post would soooo hate me.... on so many levels... anyway, back to what i was saying... just to let you know not matter how many time you go through what you want to ask or even tell people... especially about the important things... it never happens how you plan it out... as well as the fact that its difficult to know how people will respond to your questions and not to offend them or in this case too .. because they are about a third party to not offend them .... complicated... creating confrontation unnecessarily is not your thing .... or i dont think it is anyway ... as fars as soap operas.... well all life gets like that at one point or another... more often for some less for others... just take the time to seperate the "drama" from the actuality of things and maybe it will be a bit overwhelming.... i dunno...

not much help .. hope things go well

here if you need an ear.
daimones From: daimones Date: May 16th, 2004 08:58 pm (UTC) (Link)
Thanks. *hugs*
wingedpixi From: wingedpixi Date: May 17th, 2004 06:38 am (UTC) (Link)
i meant to say remove the "drama" and things might be less overwhelming .... i dont think i said that right.... also... the thing that caught my eye this morning while looking through stuff is the fact that you said he doesnt care.... or rather the case is.... you are so invested in her.... she in turn seems to be preoccupied with him..... and either he doesnt notice or care..... and being as invested as you are.... you care.... care if she gets hurt or dissappointed because hes appathetic ... and because you give so much and to see the attention be given to someone who doesnt appreciate it as opposed to it being give back to you .... its all hard...

no one in the same situation would feel any different i dont think .... its hard... but things evenutally work themselves out ... just takes time.... and less drama...

also remember that time/karma have a way of working things out to the ends you wished/requested just usually never the same means which you envisioned getting to those ends

*hope your week goes well hugs*
tangled_rhythms From: tangled_rhythms Date: May 17th, 2004 04:57 pm (UTC) (Link)
If I tell you what I think, it'll only be a repeat of what I've told you so many times before about this stuff. We are two of a kind, so if you look into how you really think and feel, you'd already know what it is I wanted to say.
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