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Is this thing still on?
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So, I wanted to post a few things after reading back through some old entries. A) My first page spans more than a year and b) My life is much different now.

I still live at home with my grandmother and my mother. My wife (hey I got married - if you didn't know, and want pics, you clearly aren't on my facebook. If I like you, this can be remedied) and I live in the bottom floor/basement. It could be better, but without us here, my mom and grandmother wouldn't be able to stay here. I'm a much different person in a lot of ways. I'm much less conflicted. I think this could be a lot of self work I've been doing...or maybe that I've had a stable job now for over a year with a company I enjoy, and hope I can get promoted at. =) It's done wonders to be able to support my family. :P Still though as a part of being stable and my particular job, I've become a better communicator, and along with my wife, both of us are working to be better people than what we were.

I will always have some work to do. I think right now, the big one for me is getting out and having a community. It is rare that I do things with other people that are not quasi work events. I work out with my wife 1 to 2x a week, that's it. Tonight I got to hang out with Darryl and a bunch of people that are gamers/extended family and I realize how much fun it is to just hang out with a bunch of like minded intelligent OPEN people. (seriously, when was the last time you had an open and honest conversation about BDSM nudist communities - why do we still call them colonies, anyways? - in a Chinese restaurant...) If only Lisa didn't get a migraine because she's still struggling with managing her newly discovered diabetes and I wasn't still in the middle of this nasty f* headcold. She gets out more than me, and I admit, she's more social but still. She has her spirituality classes, and she 'goes out with the girls' to do pampered chef parties, sewing stuff, candle stuff, etc...I need to find some hobbies that are outside my computer and that actually involve a good group of people. I've been pondering trying to find a maker faire, it seems pretty up my ally. =)

Ah well, I'm sure in 2 years I'll post again and I can see what's changed since then. And between now and then, I'll learn to use paragraphs appropriately in my LJ (hahahahaha).

I could go back to dream posting - I did actually derive some benefit from that. This morning, for example, I was discussing a dream element of mine that involves stairs (stairs in my dreams are...ominous). Not sure if it was my dream or not. Probably not, I don't dream very much - my wife i s much more active in that regard.
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melydia From: melydia Date: April 15th, 2012 12:48 pm (UTC) (Link)
Whoa whoa whoa, when did you get married? I'm on your Facebook but I completely missed that! (But then, maybe you just don't like me...) ;)

Anyway, it's good to hear from you.
daimones From: daimones Date: April 15th, 2012 02:43 pm (UTC) (Link)
Pft. Dec. 17th. It was weird linkages maybe it didn't make it past fb's weird filter stuff. I dunno. I'll send you an email if you'd like. :)

And if I haven't said so, i'm glad to know you came out the other side of eye surgery with vision++.
melydia From: melydia Date: April 16th, 2012 12:18 am (UTC) (Link)
Ooh ooh! I'd love an email with pictures. And the fact that it happened within the last six months makes me feel a little better. :)
ryannktsu From: ryannktsu Date: April 16th, 2012 12:24 am (UTC) (Link)
Whoa, married? News to me! Congrats! \o/
daxayl From: daxayl Date: January 6th, 2013 01:26 pm (UTC) (Link)

Almost a year later..

Uhm..yeah..I miss a lot it seems. Happy Married life and all that....

Totally need to find you on fb...perhaps I'll do that instead of going to bed like I should have...at least an hour ago.

{edit} - *blinkz* So..I guess we are friends on FB..I just forgot or something. So..yeah...perhaps thats why I need to go to bed...


Oh..and I've never heard of a BDSM nudist community. Until now anyway. It sounds...different.

Edited at 2013-01-06 01:29 pm (UTC)
daimones From: daimones Date: January 6th, 2013 07:17 pm (UTC) (Link)

Re: Almost a year later..

Hi James! :)
From: (Anonymous) Date: August 26th, 2013 06:00 pm (UTC) (Link)

congrats

Not logging into my lj act. It's laura aka pixi .. and im late to the party, but congrats none the less. Just an odd comment from my roommate made me think of lj and go back and check it out. Glad things are well getting better. Oh and I missed this on FB because I'm pretty dead on there too. my electronic footprint these days is about nil. Sad huh.
daimones From: daimones Date: August 27th, 2013 01:52 am (UTC) (Link)

Re: congrats

pixisighting. :) email me, hasn't changed?
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